Wedding Reception Etiquette
When it comes to the wedding receptions, the rules of etiquette become thick. Certain questions arise in your mind such as can I buy expensive gift? Can I eliminate children? Or can I debate about cash bars, etc.
Here are certain points that help to solve your wedding etiquette related dilemmas.
- It's totally a bad idea if you are requesting cash gifts. You should never mention about cash gifts or any other type of gifts on your wedding invitation because weddings are not the fundraisers. However, word of mouth can be great thing. Make list of bridal party and your family mouthpieces to speak the word on the behalf of you.
- Always try to send a note of thank you for every wedding and wedding shower gifts and engagement party. You can be make thank you to each and every guest even if he is the 10th toaster. Every guest deserves an acknowledgement for their gift. You have to thankful and grateful for them because they took the time and money to buy a gift and attend your wedding.
- Every member is responsible to pay for their dresses and accessories in your bridal party. Sometimes a bride pays for their attire as thank you gift for them. Be clear from your side to avoid financial arguments and allow the members to decline your request.
- Don't apply the do's and don'ts for wearing white for second marriages or living together before marriage. Even second time brides wear white bridal gowns and have traditional church ceremonies. Many first-time brides prefer champagne, ivory or other pale shade gowns that flatter their skin tones. To provide room for modern bride gowns designer nowadays offer strapless sun and sexy sheaths dresses.
- If the parent's of bride or groom are separated or divorced, it becomes the cause for a concern. If the divorced parents are attending the wedding the invitation wordings should be - Mr. & Mrs. Bride's Parents and Mr. Groom's Dad and Ms. Groom's Mom request the honor for your presence at this auspicious moment.
- It your responsibility to separate divorced parents at wedding reception. For example the groom's mother seat with her family or friends and the groom's father with his.
- If you don't want allow children at your wedding reception, indicate 'adults-only' reception in your wedding invitation. If you write 'kids not welcome' or 'no kids' it will look rude for the guest with parents. But you can arrange the babysitting services in the nearby room can solve this problem.
- Many couple offers cash bars to cut the costs of their wedding reception.